The last two days of Supreme Court arguments involving gay marriage were a bit of a disappointment to me, I have to admit. It is always somewhat stomach churning watching people arguing in the abstract about your humanity and right to be treated equally before the law. Going into these two cases, I felt much better about the prospects for finally achieving full legal equality. Now, after hearing the arguments, I am a bit less sanguine about them reaching the more sweeping (and correct) conclusion. To be fair, I don’t think they will reach the two worst possible outcomes (upholding Prop 8 and DOMA), but it seems from the way the arguments went that they will probably fall far short of declaring a federal right to marriage.
The issues at stake are huge, and the conservatives on the court seemed to be falling all over themselves to limit the possibility that gays might found to be a suspect class, despite the obvious animus reflected in both Prop 8 and DOMA. Many of them seemed to wish that the whole discussion would just go away. One of the most nauseating examples was Roberts‘ line of questioning in the DOMA case yesterday, where he seemed to assert that gay people had plenty of political power, evidenced by the fact that they had even made their way into the Supreme Court arguments in the first place. Oh yeah, who needs to overturn these hateful laws, the people are on our side! Fundamental rights never seem important from the vantage point of people who see you as “less than”, nor for some odd reason do they see these rights as fundamental, despite them readily agreeing that they are fundamental to the groups that have them.
If I had to guess based on all the reporting and listening to the audio of the trials, I would say that they will leave in place one of the lower court rulings on Prop 8, and strike only one provision of DOMA, the one that pertains to federal recognition. This would be a huge mistake for a number of reasons, inevitably kicking the can down the road. That will leave us with a patchwork of laws and rights, and messy consequences for gay couples who travel or move to states where they are still not treated equally. Only a federal decision that removes these differences in treatment across the nation will be justice. I have no doubt that one day we will have full legal equality, but after fighting this fight for more than 20 years (I came out in 1990) I am ready to be done with the legal aspects of it. You can’t make society accept you fully (note the continued existence of racism for example) but we must rid ourselves of the inequality before the law.
It would be a mistake to pretend to know what the court will eventually decide in these cases based on nothing but the reporting and the testimony. I dearly hope that my analysis is overly pessimistic, and it is certainly possible we will have equality come June. And if we do, I will be out celebrating like never before, arm in arm with friends and family and people of good will everywhere.
To say I have been busy the last couple weeks would be a gross understatement. I have worked (and billed, thankfully) more hours in the past month than any single month in my entire freelancing career. Which means of course that the blog suffers from neglect. Part of the reason I am working so furiously is just the lucky coincidence of so many projects, and part of it is my impending vacation to Morocco in less than two weeks. I am trying to get all major work accomplished before then so that I can really enjoy my time away. It is true what they say about Jack, however, and I need to really make myself get out of the house more. With all the work I have been pretty closed up in my apartment for days on end, only venturing out here and there, or to the basement of my building occasionally to hit the gym or do laundry. I am lucky that the work itself has been quite interesting and I have learned a lot of new design and programming tricks in the past few months. The blog should kick into high gear when I am travelling in a few weeks (as it always does), stay tuned.
A few months ago, I wrote about some thoughtless woman on the internet who shared my first initial and last name and who keeps putting MY email address into whatever crap spam site she signs up for and does not want to receive email from. Now, some awful woman in some German-speaking country (who goes by the name Sabrina Suess) has begun to do the same and I am being bombarded with German spam. While I don’t get most of what is being sold, the word “JETZT!” I do understand and it figures prominently in all of it. Being of Jewish descent, you can understand why I don’t like orders being barked at me in German. This is clearly a problem the designers of email never anticipated. I guess the safest thing to do is change my name to something no one would ever think to use, like “why_would_anyone_bother_to_type_this@some_domain.com”. Of course that makes it difficult for legitimate people to reach me. If I didn’t have such a long history with this particular email address, it would not be a big deal, I have plenty of other domains that no one would likely guess, and I suppose eventually I will just have to suck it up and move all email there…