What does one need?

16
Jan
2009

At the moment, I am having a little difficulty determining what to do. I am staying in my friend Sivan’s home, and although she has been very gracious and welcoming, I feel like it is not my space.  Call me Virginia (if you must), but I feel I need a room of my own. I need a quiet space to be and work with few distractions. Nothing fancy or large, but simple and ordered. The awkwardness of living in someone else’s space is getting to me a little. That said, I feel that I should probably secure at least a modicum of work before committing to a lease or long term renting. It is a big advantage not to be paying rent right now and I am very grateful to my friends for offering me a bed in their homes. Perhaps I should just bite the bullet and get a little defensible space of my own. My job search and writing are both feeling a little scattered. It is funny that in (most) of the time of my traveling, I didn’t feel so much in need of this, as I always knew I would be moving on sooner or later, and never felt too attached to any place or space. Now having decided to make a go of it here in one place, for an open ended length of time, I feel a desire to have a small mooring. Nothing major, but something to tether to as I thrust myself into New York and its life, in the city I hope to call home.

Comments

  1. Adán says:

    Diana, who met U in India, told me about U time ago… Beautiful blog, Stephen!!! U R an interesting guy!!! Good Luck!!!

  2. Josh L. says:

    Were you referring to Oscar Newman’s idea of defensible space? http://www.defensiblespace.com/start.htm

    Good luck on resolving these questions. Of course, there are thousands of people in New York struggling with the same things.